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Liz Egloff's avatar

Thank you so much for this. So many people are pretending nothing is happening, and everything is fine. Your entire piece said it all--we are in an earthquake, and the best thing we can do is love each as much as we can.

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Bobbie Emery's avatar

Thanks Liz. Everything is not okay; we need to stand up for one another.

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Peggy Hall's avatar

With a lump in my throat, my first impulse is to say, I love you, Bobbie! Thank you for your impulse of kindness, for holding that strangers hand, for saving that man’s life! How you handled that whole excruciating day, which I just lived vicariously through your writing, is the perfect biography of who you are.

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Bobbie Emery's avatar

Thanks Peggy. I don't think I saved his life so much as I just kept him calm long enough for the paramedics to save him. What a weird day that was, vaguely reminiscent of today. So many people hurting in so many ways- but we all just keep functioning. One foot in front of the other.

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Theresa Quinn's avatar

Your essay Bobbie~

What a thoughtful metaphor for the moments in 2025 to ponder.

Thanks for putting pen to paper of your memory of a human experience and bringing it to life again.

( missing your weekend posts… TQ and Doyle)

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Bobbie Emery's avatar

Thanks Theresa, I miss my weekend posts too! I miss the normalcy of writing about earthworms and robins. It's been hard to find my voice, no one (including me) wants to hear the rage. It's hard to know what to say right now. Hugs and cookies to Doyle

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Priscilla Pasternak's avatar

All I can say is “Thank you” ❤️

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Diane Nelson's avatar

My heart is still pumping as if I was in that day with you. You are so great in making us understand real time and being somewhere or feeling something and your kindness has always been shown whether due to this experience or just from your family. Thank you for sharing.

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Kate Emery's avatar

What an incredibly perfect metaphor for our world today. Thank you. I love you!

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Bobbie Emery's avatar

It feels very familiar - except for the nastiness and my own rage. I love you too - and I love who you are- I don't say it enough.

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Diane Nelson's avatar

My heart

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Penny Miller's avatar

Wonderful description of moving on in positivity

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